CHAT- A Crap 'random thought'

Some people say it is a waste of time fully!!! But I do not think so they are very right in this aspect.

It depends on the person and his motive. Chatting is a two edged sword, which has positive and negative in it. It depends on the person how he perceives it and uses it.

I had started chatting since I was in my engineering, it started with curiosity, then transformed into entertainment, further down into passion. Down the line there has been flirting, fun, friendship, learning and finally understanding culture and human psychology.

During my journey, till date, I have met variety of people, some just there on the web world to kill time, other to seek support, seek friendship, hunt for carnal desire, seek knowledge and so on so forth and I am also a mixture of these.

But it has been wonderful journey, I have made some good friend ranging from Germany, Iran, Malaysia, Pakistan, India, Russia, Nigeria, Philippines, Canada etc. without much being biased towards gender, but ya most are from fairer gender for that’s they way web space world. Opposite attracts better.

But in my case I have found, I can relate with female better as most are here for pure relationship unlike male who are mostly looking for flirting less for serious discussion.

I have found, that boredom sets in quick until and unless there some good topic for discussion. I lose my interest if there is nothing to chat but just hi, hello, how are you and blah-blah.

Only intelligence and knowledge now attracts me to keep chatting. And it really pisses me off if I find that someone is here to chat with some personal motive and intimacy. I am attracted to those who have their own intellectual ideas and thoughts. I don't know if these are part of stages of maturing or just getting disinterested.

I keep sticking to chat in hope to find someone with same thought who has passion to wards discussion and action to make a difference in this world some one with motive for good on this earth, good of self as well as humanity. Still waiting for those people! Some I have found to be near to this, but there is usually flip flop.

I find good people with curiosity comes here but not finding someone interesting, himself/herself looses interests and then completely renounces chatting.

Still waiting for like minded people!!!

Hope there are some!!!

Random Thoughts

I am a not a great writer! But today, after chatting with an online friend of mine, I thought .... OK .. Its great if we can express ourself and let the world to see us, as the person we are...

I am a Muslim, so why to hide my thoughts and my desires from the world, when I can't hide it from Allah.

If I express my self, some people may be supportive, some critical, some might hate, and some might love, but what I will gain most out of it will be those comments will help me to think and improve myself for the better.

Its easy to give others some advice, but when it comes to us, we fear, we get scared but why? It means we are not honest with our self.

How can we be a good Muslim is we cant be honest with ourself and talk straight about ourself first.

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